Saturday, October 24, 2009

Has anyone had breast cancer or family that did with some knowledge please


Has anyone had breast cancer or family that did with some knowledge please ?
My best friend has breast cancer and definitely needs chemotherapy ? before they do anything else. they said neoadjunct therapy. I want to be very helpful and supportive of her because she was just divorced and doesnt have alot of family and we been lifelong best friends. I don't even mind doing nurse duties for her but how sick does chemo make woman ? We are both in our 30's and this is sad. I don't know what stage her cancer is yet. She is still in tests for staging.
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oh tell her im thinking of her...i had an aunt that had caner n unfortunately passed away but just make sure she nos that u r there for her and will help her...it sounds like u 2 r close...so just support her the best way u can...n ask her if she wants u 2 stay there with her she will tell u if she needs a friend...thats all i can say to do but tell her good luck n im thinkin of her...
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Chemo is very harsh on the body. She is going to get very sick. Not be able to eat or drink much and will probably lose all her hair. Chemo also makes the stomach tend to swell, so it will look like she's pregnant. She will probably lose alot of weight also. I had a friend who had breast cancer, she is 37, and she told me the best thing people did for her was to just be there. Talk to her about it, don't ignore it, remain positive and upbeat. Spend lots of time with her by getting movies. Stock her fridge with lots of non-acidic juices, popsicles, applesauce. Stuff that will be easy for her to keep down. You sound like a wonderful friend and she is very lucky to have you.
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chemo effects some pron differnt some vomit and tired some not lose of her is common you are a good friend to want to be there for her and techn. is better today so there is less to worry about but i am sure u will still worry. if it helps 27 years ago my grandma had it an d also in her lympnoids and had a 50/50 shot on an experimental drug and she is alive today cancer free i will pray for her and btw my mom and sister are doing the 3 day walk in boston ,ma



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